Why are we always searching for friends, to be happy, to â€œfindâ€ love.? Why are we not just BEING love, happiness, friends â€“ ONE?
Because we have been told a lie and we believe it â€œTo be SPECIALâ€ IS happiness !
Or is it? Specialness demands that we have an opposite, a comparison â€“ this requires a judgement. And are we knowledgeable enough to make a valid judgement or is it a two-edged sword that will split happiness from our grasps?
Could the answer is to stop searching and just BE.